Warning signs of dating abuse
If he takes vacations from the relationship with no warning it means he isn’t worried about losing you, and this is never a good sign.
If a guy knows for certain that you’ll always be there waiting in the wings, no matter how badly he behaves, he won’t respect you and he definitely won’t want to commit to you–why should he when he knows he doesn’t have to? His disappearing acts serve more as a way to let you know this relationship isn’t serious and he is still free to do what he wants.
If you’re the only one making the effort to keep the spark alive and do special things, it’s a sign that he isn’t very invested in you. He won’t introduce you to his family A lot of women make the mistake of thinking that meeting a guy’s friends is a big deal.
Maybe some guys view this as a big deal, but most don’t.
the tell tale sign that he’s all in, he’s committed. Maybe you don’t meet them right away, but he should give you come sort of indication that it’s on the horizon.
At the very least, he should let you know that his family is aware of your existence.
By keeping you away from his family, he’s essentially saying he doesn’t see you being in his world for the long run.
If you are not from the Midcoast Maine area, here are some resources that may be of help to you: the Maine Coalition to End Domestic Violence at 1-866-83-4HELP or via the web at the National Domestic Violence Hotline, 1-800-799-7233 or via the web at When a guy opens up to you, when he shares his dreams, his fears, his hopes, his wishes, his motivations, etc., he is investing in you.By investing in you, he is committing himself to you.He disappears for days or weeks at a time, then acts like it was no big deal If a guy truly cares about you, he will want to make room for you in his life.Even if he has a lot going on and won’t be available for a few days, he’ll send a text or message to let you know he’s thinking about you.